Nearly every live presentation I did in the last several years, from east coast to west, was for women. In fact, I not only discouraged male attendance, I even politely asked a well-meaning husband or two to wait it out — outside. This isn’t because I don’t love males (I so do!), and it isn’t because I’m afraid of what they might say or do in my class. The real honest-to-goodness reason for minimizing the testosterone in the room is because I didn’t want to embarrass anyone. I knew that women might be embarrassed to ask questions and that men might be embarrassed by the answers…
…not because the answers are derogatory, but because the answers are real.
How real?
At a presentation of “Understanding, Appreciating, and Supporting the Men (and Boys) in Our Lives” late last year, a curious husband snuck in. Actually, three or four snuck in. There wasn’t much I could do about it under the particular circumstances that night, so I weighed anchor and sheets-to-the-wind, just as I would have if the room were filled with females only. It was smooth sailing for the first five minutes or so, but soon after, as we got into deeper water — I could see color in the cheeks of every one of the male stowaways: red, green…blue. (Get that guy some air!)
Two hours later when it was all over, I stood at the door shaking hands and taking comments. When the first masculine grip came along, I blurted out, “Thanks for being a good sport. I hope you weren’t uncomfortable.”
He stared at me for a couple of seconds, then said very deliberately, “Let me tell you what it was like.” He paused–searching for the right metaphor. “I felt like…a cadaver at a medical school.”
(Wow. He really hit the word “ca-DA-ver”.)
“Like I was lying on the table naked and you were all poking and prodding around inside of me.”
Yikes!
I apologized and explained that the presentation was designed to help women understand men. He said that he understood it was about understanding and then showed me the notes he’d taken. Seems he not only learned a thing or two about how his wife thinks, but actually came to understand himself much better.
How about that.
Among the other men in the room were two who had come to “audition” me actually. They waited until I had hugged the last woman and signed the last book and then asked me to speak to their organization in two months.
Obviously, I wasn’t expecting that kind of reaction from men. I wasn’t expecting these kind of book reviews either:
“As a husband, I never expected that I would enjoy reading a book about marriage. However, when I started reading “Wife for Life” I just couldn’t put it down… The male perceptions given in “Wife for Life” are spot on… I have recommended this book to my friends, both married and single…”
“My wife and I of nine years recently divorced despite us both having the best of intentions during marriage. I came across this book and…found that Zabriskie very accurately describes the male condition (fears, drives, and desires)…”
“This book helped shift the way I view my role as a man…I’m speaking specifically of the part when Ramona compares a man’s heart to a baby chick, held in his woman’s hand…I was in a place where I wanted to be honest, but that may have been the last thing I wanted to be true. It is true.”
Surprise!… not because I wasn’t sure of my exhaustively-researched take on the male psyche, but because I never dreamed that men would be keen on having their emotional underbelly exposed
which means of course, I’m still learning about MEN!
which of course, is GOOD THING!
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“I am a social worker/therapist. I have heard quite a bit on relationships and nothing has resonated with me as well as your material!“
“EXCELLENT! Seriously was on the edge of my seat the entire time taking notes. So, so good!”
“I’m NOT a seminar type of person, because I hate sitting still and I get very bored). This was far from boring. It was fascinating, and Ramona is so funny and entertaining!”
“Absolutely phenomenal! Profound, entertaining, and oh-so right on!”
“I am a professor of Marriage and Family with a stay-at-home husband. This was very enlightening!”
“Your words and teaching have been a major blessing in my life. You’ve helped me learn some things that have brought some much needed perspective changes.”
“I’ve been married for over 40 years and have 4 sons and felt that I probably didn’t need this class. I was wrong.”
“As promised in the presentation, I can tell you this is also improving my relationship with my teenage son!”
“Awesome! I want to go deeper and deeper! I learned so much!“
“We laughed a lot but the bottom line was right on! Funny, inspiring, and true!”
“I feel so hopeful, so empowered! “
“I’ve been married 42 years and this is the best presentation on men and marriage I have ever heard!
“Perhaps the biggest take away from your presentation, and there were many, was the knowledge that I now had the understanding and the tools of how to draw my husband to me.”
“This was like going to a Zumba class! I love my husband!”
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SO exciting to learn about some of the most IMPORTANT people in my life!!! I love the awareness I’ve found through this presentation! Thank you, Ramona.
Yes, Sarah, IMPORTANT. There is no getting round it: Our sons and our husbands and our fathers affect us profoundly.
I learn something knew every time I hear this presentation. Understanding is so vital to nurturing our relationships! It is fascinating to learn about our wonderful men and boys and comforting to be given tools to understand and love them even better!
Katie, you are one of those dedicated, curious, proactive women who just keep coming back for more. I love you!
so exciting – I love the new videos! 🙂
Thanks for your enthusiasm Deborah!!
This presentation opens my eyes again and again to the things that help me to better understand the men in my life. I don’t know where I would be without it!
Adele! We ALL need the reminders!
Will be celebrating our 33rd anniversary end of June, and we both still feel like we have so much to learn about each other! It’s easy to fall into just living as roommates. But we want to learn how to love each other well, so that the next season of life will be the best years of our marriage.
What a lovely article! Surprising and on the same not: you are speaking the truth and who wouldn’t want to be better understood?! ? Thanks for this article!
So much to learn. I hope to apply these ideas better.
I definitely feel that there are things I don’t understand about my husband and men in general. Thanks for shedding some (a lot) of light on this Ramona!
This is amazing!! I love resources like this – where we can truly UNDERSTAND men/boys and learn! It is so hard to understand what they are really thinking and feeling when we are coming at it from a feminine brain! I love that some men heard your presentation and read your book and really enjoyed it. That is so encouraging to hear their words! I also love that one of the men really had a better understanding of himself afterwards. That is profound! Sometimes you need a little nudge from someone to do a little self reflection. Great work, Ramona!
So how is a mans heart like a baby chick? That part lost me a bit. I enjoy these articles
Hey Kerri! The male reviewer is referring to my book, Wife for Life: The Power to Succeed in Marriage. bit.ly/wifeforlife
Here’s the passage:
Once, as a preschooler, I visited a petting zoo. Fluffy things fascinated me: bunnies and kittens of course; but the most intriguing creatures of all were tiny baby chicks. Diminutive size communicated vulnerability to me, and I yearned for a touch. Someone finally noticed me hanging over the cage and put a squirming chick into my fingers. Yellow fuzz, warm from the heat lamp, made me want to squeeze it like a hot water bottle. I would have, except hovering hands snatched it away.
Good thing. And too bad male hearts can’t be rescued like that before wives (acting more like little girls than women) thoughtlessly crush them. I understand a lot about why they do. There’s a whole list of whys, actually, which we’ll discuss in Chapter 8, but the most common reason women squash their man’s crusade (and thereby his heart) is plain old ignorance. They just don’t know. Here’s a man, probably bigger and thicker than she is. Who would guess that he’s as susceptible to her careless treatment as that little chick to a child’s? It’s not something he can tell you. He won’t verbalize his sacred need. In fact, he will do his best to cover it up, because a man’s aim is to impress his woman with strength. To be so blatantly sensitive would let you see how easily he is humiliated, and that would make him dangerously vulnerable—something he cannot tolerate. Failing translates to ultimate mental, and therefore physical, stress.
Oh ok thank you! I will pick up your book.
If there were 3 essential things to know, what would they be? And if you had to pick one thing that needed to be implemented in every relationship to better support and Love THE man in a woman’s life (her husband), what would that be? Thank you Ramona for sharing your wisdom?
Ah Dana. Wish I could make it that simple for you (and every woman!) I would say that the 3 “essentials” will vary from woman to woman based on her current perspective and relationship. If you haven’t yet, I invite you to read Wife for Life: The Power to Succeed in Marriage, and then let ME know what YOUR 3 “essentials” turned out to be! bit.ly/wifeforlife
Thank you, Ramona! I love your videos and look forward to reading your book and taking a course. I’ve recently been trying to articulate to my husband why I wish he would take ownership of mistakes, particularly related to our home and family. I feel that I readily own my mistakes, and for some reason I want him to do so too. Perhaps you can help me drop that desire? Thank you!
I can help you evaluate why it’s so important to you, Jennifer, and how to communicate that need to your husband in a more productive and respectful way. 🙂
I really appreciate your insight. And I love the story of hearing your presentation from the guys perspective. 😉
I love the comments on your presentation; it makes me thirsty to learn what I can do to improve my relationships with my husband and sons!
Words of affirmation are so powerful! What a gift those “stow-aways” gave you. Thank you for helping us to better understand our men-husbands, fathers, and sons.
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This reminds that I need to get back to the book and finish reading it, not only for my husband but also for my sons.
It’s hard to understand others (including ourselves), so thank you for the opportunity.
We have been married for 7 years and it seems like the longer we are married, the less I understand him. I can’t wait to read the book and learn how to understand my husband better!
Thank you so much for helping me make the most important human relationship I have that much better! You have been extremely helpful in my quest for a better marriage with my wonderful husband (and we have lots of issues!)!
Your comparison of a man’s heart to a baby chick in a woman’s hands is a powerful image. I would love to hear more!
Thank you Ramona for your ministry, and the wisdom that you share.
I have been separated from my husband for three years after 11 years of horrific marriage. My husband is a chameleon and presents one person in public and another at home. He has been diagnosed as bipolar and I have been told by many psychiatrists and therapists that he is narcissistic. I recently stopped all contact with him due to my health (I have had lupus and fibromyalgia for 17 years. This winter I was homebound for 5 months needing in-home health care) and the negative affect his behavior has had on my and my son’s wellbeing. Since then, he sent me half of his tax refund(he hasn’t provided any support for the 3 years we been separated. Prior to that, he spent all of the money before I could pay the bills. It was a mess.) I didn’t file for support, because I knew that with his spending habits he would lose the house. Instead, my son and I set up a budget for him and guided him into more responsible spending.
When I recently cut off contact, I told him that I was releasing him to God’s care and that I was praying that he would come to a full knowledge of God, through the Lord Jesus Christ. When he sent me the money, he also informed me that he was a new man in Jesus Christ. I am very hesitant to trust him after all of the years of lying and blaming, and the physical, emotional and mental abuse that he has put both me and my son through. We have been rejected from 2 churches because of my stand and separation from him. We are now in a loving and caring church that understands and supports us. I am a committed Christian and I love my Lord. I do not want to grieve the Holy Spirit, yet, I cannot survive under his leadership and I have a responsibility to my son who has many physical and mental issues, and even though he is 19, he is not capable of caring for himself. We are in the appeal process of applying for Social Security for him.
I apologize for this lengthy message, but I would like the resource on understanding the men in your life. At the same time, I am not sure that it will help me with my husband. I would appreciate your prayers, and the wisdom that you have for someone in my situation. I am sure that with all of your experience you have dealt with this before. Thank you very much for your time in reading this and whatever guidance you may provide.
May the Lord bless you for your service to Him.
Sincerely,
Pamela S.
“I am sure that with all of your experience you have dealt with this before.” Pamela, you’re right about that, unfortunately. I know quite a bit (more than anyone wants to know!) about the mental health challenges referred to as NPD (narcissistic personality disorder) or BPD (borderline personality disorder). I completely empathize. As you recognize, Wife for Life principles do not necessarily apply to exceptional mental health issues, which cast a whole different slant on the relationship. That you survived as long as you did, and that you are surviving now, making extremely difficult, brave decisions, is amazing. My heart is with you. I hope that my resources help you sort out what is “normal” in a relationship, and what is not, and also help you re-educate yourself that way so that your other relationships and future relationships are grounded in healthier perspectives and practices. xo
I am not surprised some men would want to understand more about how they tick. I am really trying to figure out how to better love and raise my boys.
I am tickled by the fact that men snuck into your presentation. I think it is wonderful that God has given you such a gift! I am looking forward to watching the video series! Thank you, Ramona!
If more people in our world understood these concepts we would be in a much better place. Undermining men and not understanding them is at the root of many of our social problems. Every marriage needs to hear and learn these things! Thank you for your work!
Knowledge is power and I appreciate you sharing your insight.
I love your book, so I’m excited to see what more and new insights are in the videos! I don’t think my husband would try to sneak in; I have to use your advice stealthily 🙂
Thank you Ramona! I appreciate all you do to help us have better marriages!
I have so much to learn. I’ve been following you since “mom conference” fall of 2017. I’ve never considered how the principles you teach about marriage can help relationships with my sons. Exciting!! Thanks for sharing your work.
Melissa, You BET they do!
I think I “know” these things but I keep needing to hear them again to make them stick and sink in. Thanks for helping.
I have read some of your work and I am curious about more.
Jamie, I invite you to read Wife for Life: The Power to Succeed in Marriage. bit.ly/wifeforlife
Don’t forget your free study guide at my website: https://ramonazabriskie.com/book/
Excited to learn and grow my marriage into something more. Coming from a broken family-many times over- marriage is something that I gestalt value. Thank you for providing such insight & help!
I’m thankful that you continue to get out there and help us understand our husbands (and boys) better. After close to 20 years of being married, I am surprised that I am continuing to learn how to effectively nurture my.marriage.
Tell me more! Always interesting to learn how differently we are made 🙂
Being married and having two boys I definitely would love to help understand them better. So I can’t wait to watch your video series.
Would love to see this session. I need this for my marriage and being a mother of one boy.
I wish I lived in Utah and could attend this! I enjoyed the book “Wife for Life” and would love to know how to better understand my husband.
I am a nursing mom in st George, but one day when I am more free to get away, I would love to hear you speak in person. You have such a fun and dynamic way of presenting on all the videos and interviews I’ve seen. Thank you for sharing your talents.
My husband and I just celebrated 14 years and among our children are 3 sons, one on the brink of full teenage-dom. I have been on a journey to become more attune to the feelings of my males and am looking forward to your research and insight into the male psyche!
My husband was in the audience, too, and he loved Ramona! He felt validated and appreciated. Moreover, my appreciation for him increased! If you get a chance to go – GO!!!
I’m married and a mother to two boys and I sometimes feel like God have me only boys so I could understand them more. I can’t wait to learn more.
Would love to know more about the boys and men in my life! 🙂
I love books on marriage and have read a ton of them, but Wife for Life is by far my favorite! I love how honest and real she is and the amazing tips given that really work. I recommend it to everyone and often give it as a bridal shower gift. I even did a podcast on how it changed my whole view on marriage. It is hands down the best book on marriage! I am so exciting she will be presenting in utah.
Paige! So kind of you! Send me the link to your podcast!
My husband has been very curious about what you have to say in your book. I would love to take him (and me!) to one of your seminars sometime and see what he thinks. Aren’t you writing a book for the guys?
Yes Jeanne, but in the meantime, lots of men enjoy Wife for Life (as you see in the reviews I quoted). He’s welcome to it!
Thank you, Ramona, for all of your insightful articles and teaching. I really appreciate all that I can learn. I’m glad to hear that the men are also affirming your work. I really appreciated the Intimacy series that you and your husband did together. Thank you again. I have much to learn, with two young sons in the house as well.
I wish I was in Salt Lake this weekend! I would definitely go to the presentation!! But I’m excited to learn more about the men in my life at a future presentation. Love everything I’ve learned from Ramona so far!
While I’m always looking to understand my husband and improve my marriage, I am also wondering how to best nuture my three sons so they can be the best men and husands they can be.
Looking forward to understanding my man (and boys) better!
I cannot wait to attended! I have been watching and listening from the sidelines for a while now but I’m ready to dive in! See you Saturday!
I want so much to understand my husband! But deep inside, I really want my husband to understand ME as well. Is this beyond my control? Is it even necessary?
I have a 1.5 year old son, and I keep thinking how thankful I am to be raising him with my husband. Nurturing a boy as a single mom must be an incredible challenge. So thankful for these two men in my family!
What encouraging affirmations, to have real men confirm the research is right and true!
I first heard about you from the Mom conferences and always enjoy hearing from you via emails and stuff. Will continue to look forward to more from you. : )
I look forward to understanding my husband and sons even better! Thank you!
I’ve actually been praying for help to be a better wife and mother. I have 4 boys and 1 girl, so being outnumbered, is an understatement! I am excited to learn more about how I can UNDERSTAND my boys better and help my husband more in depth.
It’s nice to finally have discovered a safe place for discussing this real topic and learning how to succeed in relationships with husbands, sons, and men in general. I’m grateful to have an opportunity to get the tools I need to help in my struggle and frustration within these relationships.
This sounds so interesting. For the last couple years I’ve been working on self improvement and I’m sure this would also help me!
I’m so excited to see the videos! I just bought your book and from everything I’ve heard from you I’m so excited to improve my marriage. I’m hoping to come see you this weekend since I live in Salt Lake!
When I finished wife for life and found myself filling out a survey form, I came to the question of what I had gained from the class most of all. My husband was sitting next to me and I felt so overwhelmed at the question, so I curiously asked him what HE thought I gained from the class. Without hesitation he answered, “you understand me”… I was surprised at his answer- but the more I thought about it, the more I realized how perfect his answer was. He was right. My understanding transformed how I acted and treated him.
God bless you Ramona!!
Wow. This sounds amazing. Wish I lived in Utah to attend.
I love the thoughtful ways that Ramona describes men and their emotions. As the wife of a man who struggles to express his emotions it has helped me to better understand where he’s coming from And to respond in ways that are meaningful and connecting for us. Thanks for sharing your wisdom Ramona!
I’m always interested in ways to improve and grow my relationship with my husband. I can’t wait hear what Ramona has to say on this topic!
Oh geez, this post reminded me that I need to get back to your book and finish reading it! I bought your book and began reading it after a fight between my husband and I. It actually made me relax and not remain so angry at him. As for the baby chick story, I find myself acting too much like a child at times. Need to finish your book and take notes! Hopefully you come down to Miami some time. Thank you again for your wise words.
Id love to hear more about the mans heart/baby chick analogy!
Thank you Ramona! It has been so helpful to understand a bit about what my man is thinking!
My husband and I are divorcing after 21 years of marriage. We have two young boys so I need all the information I can get on how to understand men and boys better!!
Your article came at a good time for my marriage (and a great reminder for me). I’ve been wrestling with how to affirm my husband while he is working so hard for our family with overtime, yet I miss enjoying our time together. How do I honestly communicate my feelings without making him feel that I don’t appreciate his efforts for our family?
Oh Kelly! So important. I highly recommend reading Wife for Life: The Power to Succeed in Marriage (Amazon). The tools you are looking for are throughout the whole book, but particularly in Chapters 11 and 12. You can and should do this! xo
I love the fact that you are still learning about men too Ramona! Makes me feel better about the huge amount that I feel I still have to learn – even after being married for 11 years. Seems like such a long time, but it’s exciting to know that there is plenty of adventure ahead of us, I imagine it would be terribly boring if we both knew everything about each other already. As always, thanks for sharing your wisdom and insight!!! Have a great time at the Women’s Show!
Thank you Judith!
So I’ve been slowly reading through Wife for Life (I read a big chunk, and then think it over for a while and eventually read some more.) I actually think it’s more applicable to my marriage than other books I’ve read. Mainly because it shows the power I have in my marriage to make it beautiful. My husband and I, in some ways, are opposites from the personalities described in other marriage books. Like he wants to talk arguments out right away and have things return to nice ASAP and I get silent and need time to process. I can get very focused on my work and not come up for air or to check in with my peeps, whereas he can keep many plates in the air at a time. He wants romantic outings and anniversaries while I am happy to stay home, save money, and eat-in. Anyways, none the less I enjoy Ramonas insights into marriage especially the concept that both partied want it to work! We just need to support ourselves and each other as we grow our relationship. I’m still not to the “fun stuff” part of the book, but looking forward to it.
I am intrigued by this topic since I feel like I always have much to learn about how to understand them and nurture them in the best way.
Question: So in the end, do you think that, despite the painful exposure, most men like to learn more about themselves, or do you think most men would rather not know themselves as much as they simply want us wives to understand them?
Em, the trick in your question is “most men”. I imagine that like any human on this planet, some men are more interested in self-awareness than others. What I have found though, from those I am aware of, is that men are amazed that OTHER MEN think or feel as THEY do. Since it’s not discussed amongst themselves, to find out other men are as afraid as they are, for instance, is something of a revelation, AND, for many, a relief.
Thank you so much Ramona! The baby chick analogy is so insightful! You are a blessing to many marriages!
I think it’s a great complimented to make a man feel like a cadaver … Uncomfortable as that may be! ? I want that kind of understanding and promise to use it with discretion!
I love the vow of “discretion” Tami!
Thank you for your work! I have benefited so much from your wisdom!
Thank you for your insight and helping me understand my husband better. I love that you do this through kindness and respect. I think I will call you “The husband whisper” . Yes, I can already see my marriage improving through your book and Wife for life.
Oh Sharlene, other students have called me that! I’m so glad it’s helping!!!
I’ve been married for almost 11 years and still feel like I have SO so much to learn about my husband! Thanks for all that you do!
This is awesome information! I would love to learn more. My husband seems to be so strong and confident all the time so I am surprised by how he really feels when he opens up to me. I would love this info to get more to ask him about to know him deeper.
I’m a wife and mother of 2 boys, even the cat is a boy, I would love to better understand my guys.
Loved your book and can’t wait to learn more.
The (potentially begging) question – will there be a Wife for Life 2: Husbands for Life book coming out anytime in the near future? I ask bc I want to read it as a wife, so I too, like the man who commented on your presentation, can understand myself as a wife and as a person better 🙂
And you WILL! Love that perspective Jennifer!
Ramona Thank you for this book. I can’t wait to read it. Will you be teaching at a conference in New Mexico or west Texas anytime soon or do you only teach in Utah?
Michelle, I go where I’m invited! Get me an invite! 🙂 in the meantime, stay close and I’ll help you all I can. xo
I’m excited to learn more from you! Thank you for sharing!
I can’t wait to learn more and share with my husband.
Thanks for the great insight
I would love more insight into my husband and boys. Goodness knows I am clueless in many ways! Thank you Ramona for all you do!
I love what I have learned from you about the nature of men Ramona! Keep it coming 🙂 We need all the help we can get.
Ramona, you are awesome! I love learning from you about how to better understand and nurture my husband and our marriage. My man is such a blessing to me, and I want to return the favor! Thank you for shining a light and giving hope to so many individuals and marriages, I’m excited to learn more!
Thanks for your insights. I hope to learn more through your resources. So much to understand!
I’m excited to learn how to be a better person for the men in my life!
I would love the chance to view your presentation. I’m really struggling in having meaningful conversation, let alone a relationship, with my teenage son. I have a good relationship with my husband but can see there is a lot of room to improve there, too. I’m a little overwhelmed just now with all that’s going on in our lives because of my son’s recent diagnosis of depression…I could sure use all the help I can get!
You make me so excited to learn more and be a better wife to my husband. I think I don’t understand him, but with your help it is becoming easier to see things from his perspective. Thanks for all you do!!!
Thank you for your commitment to your quest. It has changed my life!
I am married and have 3 sons. I would love to learn more about them and watch this series!
The first time I had the privilege of hearing you was at the Mom conference last year. You are an inspiring woman and I have learned so much from your emails that you send. I want to be a much better wife and and I am so thankful for your dedication and sacrifice to bring us so much information. You are amazing!
I have a wonderful husband, we have a great relationship, I’m sure there is more I could learn, but I also have three sons, the oldest is 14, I have a hard time understanding him, I would love to watch the Understanding Men video series to give me insite into these special males in my life.
I read ur articles, Ramona, b/c u shared how u took the initiative to save your own marriage & that u cared about ur own success to do what was necessary; for instance, ur getting around successfully married women; also, u then utilize intelligence to forsake the evils u know will undermine the outcome u desire; a result, u have been a literal Saviour for ur husband, Dale, in the most important work any of us can possibly undertake in this earthly experience which is btwn the walls of our own domicile — no greater work could any of us accomplish & no success could ever compensate if we fail there❗️
I still keep looking for a time, unlikely though it be, for that Bridge Across Forever (as Richard Bach might describe) since love ❤️ makes the world ? round❗️
Truly,
Russ
I love learning more about the way emotions work! So grateful for your perspective!
You work totally fascinates me, thank you for all you do!
I love that your message is both pro-man AND pro-woman! I love learning more and more about what makes us different and complementary. I can empathize with that man in your presentation. It is shocking to hear your fears and motivations broken down so clearly in Wife For Life! Thank you for helping me see my husband in a different light.
I grew up with three brothers and thought I understood boys pretty well, but I know I still have lots to learn about my husband!
This is fascinating to me. Can’t wait to learn more!
Fascinating. I would love to learn more about what you teach. Where is the best place to start?
Also are you still giving out a free video? Is it the same one that your website offered my when I came to read this?
Thanks!
Hi Natalie! Thanks for asking. The video lesson, Marriage Markers, is free right now, but only till later this month. It’s an important place to start. http://knowthemarriagemarkers.com/
My book, Wife for Life: The Power to Succeed in Marriage, goes much more in depth of course and encompasses the whole Wife for Life approach to marriage, including understanding men and boys.
Stay in touch!